STRESS STYLE

 
 


Stress Style Inventory


Imagine yourself in a stressful situation. When you’re feeling anxious, what do you typically experience? Note all that apply:


o    My heart beats faster.

o    I find it difficult to concentrate because of distracting thoughts

o    I worry too much about things that don’t really matter.

o    I feel jittery.

o    I get diarrhea.

o    I imagine terrifying scenes.

o    I can’t keep anxiety-provoking pictures and images out of my mind.

o    My stomach gets tense.

o    I pace up and down nervously.

o    I’m bothered by unimportant thoughts running through my mind.

o    I become immobilized.

o    I feel I’m losing out on things because I can’t make decisions fast enough.

o    I perspire.

o    I can’t stop thinking worrisome thoughts.


There are three basic ways of reacting to stress – primarily physical, mainly mental, or a mix of both. Physical stress types feel tension in the body – jitters, butterflies, the sweats. Mental types experience stress in the mind – worries and preoccupying thoughts. Mixed types react with both responses in about equal measure.


Give yourself a MIND point if you answered “yes” to any of the questions:

   2, 3, 6, 7, 10, 12, 14


Give yourself a BODY point if you answered “yes” to any of the questions:

   1, 4, 5, 8, 9, 11, 13


If you have more MIND than body points, consider yourself a mental stress type. If you have more BODY points, consider yourself a physical stress type. Do you have about the same number of each? You’re a mixed reactor. Read further for relaxation strategies.




Stress Relaxer Strategies



                                                           MIND RELAXATION

If you experience stress as an invasion of worrisome thoughts, the most direct intervention is anything that will engage your mind completely and redirect it – meditation, for example. On the other hand, some people do find that physical activity is effective in “unhooking” the mind effectively.

     Meditation
 Autogenic suggestion
 Reading
    Crossword puzzles
 TV, Movies
 Games like chess or cards
 Knitting, sewing, carpentry and other handicrafts
 Any absorbing hobby
 Vigorous exercise





       
BODY RELAXATION

If stress registers mainly in your body, you’ll need a remedy that will break up the physical tension. This might be a vigorous workout, a but a slower-paced relaxer may be equally effective. Some suggestions to get started include:

   Aerobics
    Progressive relaxation
    Swimming
    Body scan
    Biking
    Rowing
   Walking
    Yoga
    Massage
    Soaking in a hot tub, steam room or sauna












MIND/BODY

If you’re a mixed type, you may want to try a physical activity that also demands mental rigor:


Competitive Sports (racquetball, tennis, basketball, volleyball, etc.)

 Meditation

Any combination from the Mind and Body lists




Source for Stress Style Inventory and Relaxers: Goleman, D. (1986). What’s your stress style? American Health

(April 1986). 41-45